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A Message from The Higher

spiritualarts — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 23:58:03 +0000

Recently in meditation this message came through very strongly from The Higher:

Your only obligation is to God.

It is too easy to somehow underestimate the importance of God. It is very common that we get so busy with what we perceive to be our responsibilities that we forget what is most essential – our relationship with the Beloved.

Know this to be true: by putting God first, the rest of our life will fall into place.

~Barbara Y. Martin
copyright 2011

Healing Relationships Teleconference Call

spiritualarts — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 21:04:43 +0000

We will be having a teleconference call on Healing Relationships with Spiritual Energy next Monday, February 1st at 6:30 p.m. Please contact us if you would like to be on the call.

Relationships Telecall Part II Thank You

spiritualarts — Sat, 28 Feb 2009 03:42:56 +0000

Thank you to everyone who signed up for this evening’s teleconference call on the Aura and Relationships, part II. Next month’s call will be on the aura and career, so stay tuned!

February Teleclass: The Aura and Relationships

spiritualarts — Fri, 13 Feb 2009 19:41:03 +0000

We’ve scheduled the February teleclass for Friday February 27th! This teleclass will continue our exploration of the aura and our interactions with others. Join Barbara and Dimitri and learn how to work with your aura to build new relationships as well as strengthen present ones. We’ll be sending you more info via email shortly, so stay tuned for the details.

If you’re not already on our email list and would like to participate in the teleclass, you can sign up for our email list here – or, if you prefer, leave a comment on this post – and we’ll send you the info.

The Aura and Marriage

spiritualarts — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 01:39:17 +0000

Q: How can the aura help when spouses begin to feel less compatible with each other?

A: As we know, there are many dynamics that go into creating and sustaining a successful marriage. Love is always number one. Without love, no marriage can sustain itself to grow and mature. Certainly we have to be adaptable and demonstrate a dedication to make the relationship work. If you feel that something is not as harmonious as it was with your spouse, the aura can most definitely help. Ask to receive the deep rose-pink ray of spiritual love in all levels of your being to release any fears, irritations or resentments that might be disturbing the relationship. Ask that the angels of love “according to divine law and love” go to your spouse so that he or she be blessed in the love ray as well. This will help you to see things from a fresh perspective and will have an elevating effect on your aura and relationship.

Relationships Teleconference Call Thank-You

spiritualarts — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 20:46:25 +0000

A big thank-you to everyone who signed up for the Aura and Relationships teleconference call last evening. We’re planning on having another call next month, so stay tuned for the details.

Upcoming Relationships Teleconference Call

spiritualarts — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 19:39:28 +0000

In case you missed the Bodhi Tree event on relationships, we’ll be having a teleconference call on The Aura and Relationships next Wednesday, January 21st at 6:30 p.m. We’ll be discussing how you can work with your aura to heal relationship issues and create the relationships you desire.

Bodhi Tree Thank-You

spiritualarts — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 01:59:08 +0000

A big thank-you to all those of you who were at the Bodhi Tree Relationships event on Sunday. We had a full house, even with the record heat wave! It was wonderful to meet all the new faces and see the familiar ones too – we had a great time! We hope to see you at the next Bodhi Tree event in March.

Strengthening Your Relationships with the Aura

spiritualarts — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 23:57:31 +0000

When we relate with other people, not only is there an exchange of thoughts and emotions, but there is an exchange of spiritual energy as well. This can most clearly be seen in our aura. In fact, there is a steady exchange of energy when we are interacting with others. This is by divine design of course. If there were no exchange of energy, we could not connect with people and our relationships would have no meaning.

As we know, our relationships are not always of the highest order. It is all too easy for anger, resentment, frustration and disappointment to set in and this disturbs the quality of our relationships. We must be very careful as an exchange of negative energy from one aura to another has a debilitating effect on the sender and the receiver. Most of the time, we’re not aware that we may be sending or receiving negative energy. Yet we’re certainly aware when an exchange with another person has left us happy or sad.

Here are a few simple guidelines to help you work with your aura in any difficult interaction with others. First recognize that the goal of any relationship is to come from a place to love. Love is the key to healing any relationship friction. So your first job is to work with the deep rose-pink ray to uplift yourself and the other person.

Second, no one has the right to step into your auric field unless somewhere you permit that to happen. This means if you are faced with a difficult relationship, you have to stand up for yourself and refuse to become a victim in any way. If you feel an exchange with another person is heading into a negative direction, see yourself in a golden bubble of protective light and silently refuse any negative energy that may be directed at you. By refusing the destructive energy, you’re helping diffuse the situation which will help all people involved. It’s also a good idea to shower your entire aura with the gold light to build more dynamic power in your dealings with others.

If you’re the one who has sent negative energy to another person, then it is a good idea to work with the white light. Ask that the white light go to that person to release any negative energy you may have sent as well as to derail the destructive effect it may have had on them. Do your best to think kindly of that person. If you find it difficult to do, reaffirm the spiritual perspective with an affirmation such as, “I let this go and put this person in God’s loving hands. I refuse to think badly about this person.” This will help avoid the transmission of any destructive energy.

We are all precious in God’s sight regardless of the mistakes we may make. Being dynamic and strong as well as loving and kind is the key to creating healthy and productive relationships.

In Divine Light and love,

Barbara Y. Martin
Spiritual Director

Join Us in Encinitas on February 9!

spiritualarts — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 20:34:05 +0000

We are delighted to be going to Soul of Yoga in Encinitas for an exciting weekend event on February 9th. Tom and Trisha Kelly own a wonderful, well-rounded yoga studio with an emphasis on health, fitness, meditation and spiritual growth. Trisha is a student at Spiritual Arts Institute, so we are looking forward to an uplifting spiritual synergy. The workshop will be on the heart chakra, how it’s connected to your soul and the activities of your life. We will explore how the aura is the energetic nucleus of your personal affairs such as finances, relationships and career. We look forward to seeing you there!